Friendship as other relationships , it requires its bare minimum to sustain. If there is one-side effort, friendship will die.

After 10 years of finding, building and maintaining friendship, now I decided to cut off most of it like I have to cut off bad branches for a tree to growth better.

The people I call friends, spent a lot of time and effort with them as well as money and energy turns out taking advantage of me at the last. I realized a lot of things, turn out they’ve never consider me as a friend, stay with me only because I always willing to give.

They’re unhappy when I success, never appreciate me. Why I have lie to myself all the time? It is because of my expectation. I always wish to build a long lasting friendship, to have someone to lean on in my worst days, to have people who support me when I fall, to share and enjoin life together. That is just an ideal that will never happen in reality.

In reality, when I need them the most, when the worst days come, I only have myself. Even when have to move to another city to live, they were indifferent. What kind of friends is that? not to say that we have been friends for 10 years, I showed up at their weddings, gave them wedding gift – money of course, brought gifts and visited them when they had children? bullshit, I could care more for someone I barely know.

So, just that – the tipping point, I decided that I will cut them off my life completely, I have no reason to do not. There is nothing left to keep this shitty friendship alive.

I am not available now. My time and energy are expensive only one who I select to be my friends now deserve it. I withdraw all my investment from you. This is the end and thank you for the time. We are no longer friends.